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I said oh ok then i figuered i give it a shot, atleast i get an A for effort and chalked it up as a loss, and started walkin away, then she goes well lemme have your number then so i gave it to her and without me even asking she wrote hers down with her name on it and handed it to me. im mean what the fuhk i called twice left a message, figured she didnt get it so i called again. i was like hey its joe from bla bla bla is it a good time to take with ya, she said can i call you back im at work. now i feel like that guy calvin from that movie waiting.and for some reason i want to call her again to get her in person to talk to her and say u coulda just said no.It's funny how, I might cave to a hard sell, I might really like a guy but I just can't make it work, so in the phone calls he can talk me into further talking, but after I get off the phone, uh, now real life intrudes, this just isn't going to work.The hardest part for me is only getting contacted by men who are FAR AWAY.Some guys have passed them off to me in first email or IM.I need to know a tad more about them before I call, but...Avoidance is the general tactic practiced by most people to handle situations that they are mentally, spiritually, or physically too impoverished to otherwise deal with in a more civilized fashion. Check out the other posts on what the "good guy" (aka, needy guy) comes across as. Trying to tell them what we think they WANT to hear. Why when you give the phone number, do you never hear from them, I dont get it, it doesnt make sense to me, they want to date you or go for a drink, you give them the number.
I haven't been able to find a thread regarding this.Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.Not to be mean, but why do men give out *wrong* numbers?Then things got tangled and I realized I just don't have the time or inclination right now, and that's not fair to anyone.
I'm a practical person FIRST, and I've had to take a deep breath and call back and hurt someone's feelings as nicely as possible. I suppose there are times when I don't call back as quickly as I should, there's something BIG going on in my life or I'm in Mexico or the darn phone lines are just down, again.Have lots of love to share but with one also loving and interested in sincere friendship.